Hence, in some sense, the figure of a man and a woman is being unrestricted more than you can imagine, and it has the definite meaning in the end.
Since while humankind does not know the meaning, they have produced the seeds of unhappiness and confusions or disorder, as the consequence of its abuse in a wrong direction.
In the true meaning, one whom you are being attracted to is — but, it is the present state of the earth that only a small number of persons can encounter their real partner on the ground. In that situation, that which can be done for you all now is, after all, to walk together with somebody being attracted heart to heart, receiving what has been given to you by God with gratitude from your heart. I would like to recommend this.
In this situation, even if the partner is not your true spiritual partner, the meaning to be learned there is significant.
You can learn fundamentally what love is to be when living together as two people rather than living alone.
If you are not going to get married because the person is not your spiritual partner, it is because of your vanity. It is haughty.
If you cannot make your partner or loved ones or family happy instead of making yourself happy, there will be no way to encounter your real spiritual partner, in a real sense.
Certainly yourselves might bind you, or there might be considerable inconvenience. It might sacrifice your time for doing things more freely.
What do you think about this?
How much energy and time and money have you been spending for this Lemuria? But, you are using it in the service with a joy.
This is a service to God. And love.
You all are spending your very precious time, but among you there is someone who wanted to write a novel. Actually, he doesn't want to come here. Though he wants to go back home and write his novel, he has to lodge many days, and do this kind of work. How are you going to do for my time and energy? Never the less you have come to us, and doing many works in Lemuria. You all have been doing really so lot of works here.
This part, how is it? One does not want to do it. Actually he wants to do something. But for what does he doesn't want to do he will do what he can do by sacrificing his own time and money and energy.
That is love. I would like you to learn about it, please.
For all of you, to learn such a thing is significant, and through ordinary life love is being superposed and accumulated in each one of the scenes of daily life so that you learn what love is to be.
There is a life of this time, and the next life follows it. You climb the steps one by one.
You are learning so.
But even if you have encountered your own spiritual partner, there are situations that occur in which you have separated, but even if you have been separated, if you could think, by contrast, that which is being separated has been negative for the two of you, and how it caused suffering, you should realized that you could have learned that you have to care more about to each other when you two encounter each other again.
It is just like that.
So, all of the life, every scene in life, is an indispensable scene in life. There is nothing useless.
This is a matter I would like to tell you.
In the love, there is nothing useless.
If you have a chance, you could be with another person rather than being in single.
And you are going to learn from it. I would like to recommend this life.
But still I am not going to insist upon it. If you want to live as a single person, it would be all right. Though, if there were husband and wife, a married couple, and here somebody was saying "We have children," then they would also have a spiritual relation to you.
The matter whether you have children or not doesn't relate to the strength of the relation between the spirits of a man and a woman. I would like you to learn this.
When you come back to the heaven, there are no children. Even if there is no child, the spirits are being attracted.
So too exist the sexes of a man and a woman.
The sexes of a man and a woman involve many things to be learned there, if they are living together, or if they have a baby. Certainly, love involves many learning. But sometime, children are going to leave the nest.
Those who remain in the end are husband and wife. They are a man and a woman.
Through this relation you learn the fundamentals of love.
The presence of children does not become a corner stone of its success or a failure.
Conversely, what are you going to learn through it? What have you done primarily?
And though you might not be aware of it, it may be, in some sense, that you are reaping the karma from the past life.
Considering such things, I would like you to make much of your life in you this time.
Spirit is eternal.
In the flow of time of the eternal spirit, a moment "now" is existing.
In order to make love as plentiful as possible and make it ripening, there are a man and a woman.
For that purpose, all the things exist.
So, as you are saying by yourself, if you want to live alone, it is all right. But, among those who are hearing this, there might be a "must." If you want to live as a single person by all means, you will be able to live so. You can choose it. I'm only saying, "recommend," I do dislike the word "must" very much.
You need not get married out of a sense of duty. By charging duty and responsibility, there is no need to be together as a man and a woman.
There is a word "fall in love." To love means, when you have been aware, they have fallen and exist in "love." You feel your heart go. Your heart danced for joy. If you want to live there, you may simply choose it.
Among those, only I would like to say, "It would be a more plentiful life after all, if the two are encountering each other and living in love rather than being single," and "There is that which is to be learned," and "You can learn love plentifully."
But if there is a silly guilty conscience in yourself when you are going to learn love, I would like to release you from things like that.
So I would like the earth to be a world for you to be able to express more openly so that you could release those things in your thoughts, and experience the intercourse the love between a man and a woman with joy.
In contrast, there would be the figure of a man and a woman after the renaissance of love has happened.
All the people, wherever they may go, take hands without shame, behave with their partner in the people, and they can work together because they are living together as a couple rather than as a single person.
That figure I have been showing to you all. If it had not been the original fundamental partner, this kind of thing could not have been done. Owing to the reason that the energy of man and that of woman are being united, it could be done. And it is not only being united, not only the energies are being united, but also it could be a bridge to connect the heaven and the ground.
That which is being is what I have been showing to you all. So as it has been, the energy of God is great.
So as it has been, you find there's a lot more to it than you'd think.
Nevertheless, there is the thought that an encountered between a man and woman may be wrong or sinful. I would think it is the time to wipe out those thoughts from the mind of the persons who are learning the divine truth.
In this present age when sex is being made into a plaything vainly, once you understand that the fundamental love is in the primary basis, and as its resulting figure there is a figure of the sexes being united, and that that figure which is being united is in its climax a journey going back to the breast of God, it should not be humble at all, ugly at all, dirty at all.
Because we have such things, great descendents, children are born, by a man and a woman who are encountering each other as its ultimate of energy of creation of a human, so that a new spirit, a child, a life is born to this world.
What is meant here is that which is a life to be born, in some sense, and a human is performing the principle of creation given by God as a creator.
Hence, the energies of man and woman are going to encounter one another. By this fact and according to this, as I have told you what the fundamental figure is today, I would like you to love with more and more joy, do the ordinary living.
I would like to say this matter.
(Channeled message from Manu ： August 20, 2005）
source of reference： "Messages to the Children of God in the Space Age" (Kindle)
